Sometimes in life there really are bonds formed that can never be broken. Sometimes you really can find that one person who will stand by you no matter what. Maybe you'll find it in a spouse and celebrate it with your dream wedding, but there's also the chance that the one person you can count on for a lifetime, the one person who knows you sometimes better than you know yourself, is the same person who's been standing beside you all along.
I realize how lucky I am to have that person. And so what if it's the friend and not the boy? As a real SATC quote says 'Maybe our girlfriends are our soulmates and guys are just people to have fun with.'